Hikaru Loves an Idea of Minmay Before He Understands Misa
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Longing at a distance · intimacy through shared life
Hikaru's feelings for Minmay grow around attraction, missed timing and the image of a life that keeps slipping away from him. The more famous she becomes, the easier it is for their relationship to exist partly as longing.
His bond with Misa develops differently. They work together, argue, rescue one another, disappoint one another and spend enough time together to see each other without much illusion left.
Why it matters
The triangle works because neither relationship is fake. Hikaru's final choice comes after the series has spent years of story time showing him the difference between wanting a possibility and building a life with someone.